Monday, February 16, 2015

Sex: the New Thing for People to Do


Couples everywhere are having sex now. If they’re not having it, they’re certainly talking about having it. That’s all thanks to last weekend’s box office triumph of Fifty Shades of Grey, the first mainstream movie that has ever depicted sex. 

Before the adventures of Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele, I don’t really remember hearing about sex in pop culture before. Steven Soderbergh’s debut movie Lies and Videotape was just about the advantages and disadvantages of film vs. tape. Other movies like Last Tango in Paris and Salo were kind of prim. Prince did a lot of moaning in his songs like “Darling Nikki” but that was really just GI discomfort. I bought Madonna’s Sex book but was disappointed because it was just her wearing a pantsuit and lecturing about gender.

Fifty Shades of Grey is also the first book that really discussed sex. Lady Chatterley’s Lovers was really just a collection of recipes. Philip Roth has never written a smutty word in his life. So this is a new horizon in literature. P.S. Congratulations on reading your first book at age 43!

Also, Fifty Shades of Grey depicts something called “BDSM.” Apparently people sometimes have sex with handcuffs and blindfolds and there’s spanking. Did you know that? Were you aware?

So this book and movie have really brought sex to the forefront of the conversation. Carnal relations were really absent from our culture entirely before. I used to hear “sex” and think it was just three letters together in a random sequence. Now my eyes are open. Thanks, EL James!

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