Any parents
are going to want to mold their children. They’ll want to pass on their values,
history, priorities and cultural touchstones. We’re coming in sort of in the
middle of the movie with our son, as some of his tastes have already been set.
We’re honoring all that stuff, but it’s just natural that we’re trying to pass
down some of the cultural stuff we care about, so he’s well rounded and what
not.
There’s just
so much culture we’ve already experienced, and I can’t wait to share it with
him. Some of it is a little Rated R but we figured, why not find something good
for his age range and start watching The
Simpsons with him?
We skipped the
early few seasons (the characters were too unformed and the tone uneven for me)
and started with season 4, the beginning of the golden years. We’re well into
season 5 now and he’s been enjoying it. It’s so much fun to revisit classics
with someone who’s never seen them, episodes like “Rosebud” (“Have the Rolling
Stones killed!”), “Marge vs. the Monorail” (“Sorry, Marge, the mob has
spoken!”), “Deep Space Homer” (“In Rod We Trust”), “Marge Gets a Job” (“It’s
the Curies! We must flee!”) and “Bart Gets an Elephant” (“D’oh! A deer! A
female deer!”). He’s been into The
Simpsons and asks us if we can watch it, so I guess that’s a winner.
As for music, I’ve
been emphasizing some of the stuff I like to listen to. It’s not like I have
any idea of what 10-year-olds like to listen to so this has mostly been what
now passes for oldies. I’ve been playing a lot of Madonna, Prince, etc. He says
he likes what he hears but he doesn’t know any of it and hasn’t heard of these
artists, which kills me. We’re also trying to keep him in touch with his
African-American culture (which we believe is our obligation) so one easy way
to do that is to push the music.
Of course, I
realize it’s a fool’s errand to push your music on their kids because
ultimately, they’ll roll their eyes at your tastes and rebel. But I’m hoping
something seeps through subliminally.
I’m also
trying to get him rooting for our sports teams, but that’s been a challenge. He
is not an Eagles fan (which made for a roller coaster Sunday when they
collapsed and the Panthers won, leading to a lot of “In your face!” in our
house). He is a Steelers fan. It’s not like he’s a Patriots fan or something
(he hates them), and I’m not opposed to the Steelers or anything. But when he
told Steve he likes the Penguins—them’s fighting words (although I think he was
trolling). Our son has no interest in baseball and doesn’t like the Sixers. But
if he wants Steelers swag, we can get him some.
I have no idea
why he’s a Steelers fan, by the way. He’s lived his whole life in the
Wilmington area. There seem to be a lot of people who are sports fans of teams
that have no relation to their geographic areas or family traditions. How does
that happen, anyway? If you live somewhere with no local teams, I can see
latching on to whatever team strikes your fancy, but we have four teams that
have been around forever. I guess I’m too much of a partisan Philadelphia
sports fan to understand. My local teams are my local teams.
Anyway, I know
parents can’t indoctrinate their kids too much into their tastes since it will
backfire. But it’s fun to expose kids to things you enjoy and hope they rub
off.
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