Monday, April 28, 2014

Mad Men S7 E3: Field Trip


At the last minute of Mad Men, I was sure Don would tell his fellow partners to jump in a lake. After all, he had an offer from a rival ad agency and the demands for him to stay at Sterling Cooper and Partners were strict: working for the guy who replaced him, never being alone with clients and as Joan spat out, the killing blow: “Except for client events, there is to be no alcohol in the office.”

Why would Don stay somewhere he’s clearly barely tolerated when he has a path out? Maybe his whole awkward day of hanging around the office broke him down. Unfamiliar faces greeted him and so few seemed happy to see him again. He got a chilly greeting from Joan and Peggy told him they don’t miss him (but would she really rather work for Lou with idiot secretary Meredith?). He had to sit all day in the creative office, eating and sandwich and flipping through magazines, while the partners figured out how to deal with a prodigal son that they never wanted to see again. When he handed Dawn his coat and hat, the only place she could put it was in her own office because he has nowhere to go. If he’s to stay, Don will be ensconced in the office of a man who hanged himself. Roger argued that Don is a creative genius but as Joan said, “This is working” without him.

It was telling that when the very busy Dawn said she couldn’t personally deliver his typing ribbon and paper (Honestly, Don, I know you’re an executive but can’t you just buy it yourself? You have nothing better to do), he petulantly told her of course he didn’t make plans because he assumed she was coming over. Don had come to depend on her company, one of the few things to make him clean up and put on a suit. He’d also come to depend on Dawn being the only one at the agency he could order around and with her new position, she just doesn’t have time for him.

Maybe Don is accepting the new rules at Sterling Cooper because it’s a little stability, perhaps something to keep him sober, as the rest of his world falls apart. A surprise visit to Megan in California quickly turns sour as, already annoyed at Don for inserting himself into her career troubles, she figures out he’s been fired and lying to her about it for months. Like his brutal honesty at the Hershey’s meeting, Don tries to tell the truth but has yet to master telling it at the right time.

There’s a parallel here between Don’s attempts at sobriety and his attempts at being honest. In both cases, he is learning as he goes and making mistakes along the way. As people sometimes find alcoholics are no fun when they get sober, do people like Don’s lies and stories better than his truth? Both times he’s come clean to people, it’s caused him to lose something dear. What most people would take from that is that maybe they shouldn’t have lied in the first place but with someone as used to deception as Don, in life and in the inherent BS of advertising, maybe the lesson he’ll take is that he should just keep on lying so people will accept him. Better to keep Dick Whitman buried.

On the titular, literal field trip, Betty is feeling as rejected as her ex-husband. It’s both sad and hilarious to see her make an effort to chaperone Bobby’s field trip and have it blow up in her face. Dressed in her best political wife suit and big sunglasses, making catty comments about her son’s teacher, she is out of place on the farm but is still trying. And what does she get for it? Her son trades away her sandwich, leaving her hungry and sulky for the rest of the day.

It’s laughable to see Betty that angry, even hours later, over a sandwich and refusing to eat dinner. She took what could have been a wonderful day with her son and wouldn’t let go of the one little thing that marred it. But it’s also very sad because this is a woman who is still dealing with some deep issues of loneliness and depression. Her marriage to Henry helped for a while but she seems to be backsliding into what Glenn once called “profoundly sad.” In Betty’s mind, a traded away sandwich equals the inevitable estrangement of her children. It’s only a matter of time before the youngest turns from her, she says. Betty and Don are unmoored and believe they are losing everything.

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